I am fade up of my mother in law?

You are well educated, from well family & still needed suggestions, what about those ladies who are suffering and not educated also, make the difference, ask yourself..do u deserve this life or something else....if you can't seperate than better to control everything at home now, if everything is well than hire one maid, try to busy urself in other activities also, do 't do everything she ask, but don't do anything wrong, if you doing anything right than just stick with that & don't care for anyonne....talk to his mother and clear the issue....& if she not give any chance to you for suggestions, better to just go away whenever any discussion starts...& when required tell them that ur suggestion is of no valve...that's why u stop discussing anything.....hope things will be better..tke care